Beliefs of optimism are also among the most empowering
beliefs, as believing that things can be the way we want is a vital step to
those desires becoming a reality.
If you have more pessimistic tendencies, try moving ever so
slightly in the direction of the positive, and see how much better it feels.
Again, doing it gradually is important. Beliefs do not
change drastically or suddenly in most cases.
Just moving from “I’m never going to find a partner,” to “There
are people in the world who were once lonely, and now have partners,” is enough
of a shift in focus to start with.
Keep repeating the new statement until it starts to feel
natural to you, and then you can move forward a little more in the direction of
a belief that matches your desire for love and happiness.